By: Temitope Bolarinwa
I won't cry when you are gone I'm used to the hurt. Just like the other ones i've been simple enough to allow be the source of my joy, you have began to talk about how fantastic some of others like me are. Just like a few of them, at the very moment that our union began to make you appear like you are super human. The trend is so exact i can predict what will happen next, just at the time it looked like it was going to be more than just a union you begin to speak of moving on, i've handed my heart out and have handled walkaways. To be honest I wont even be surprised at yours. Just like a couple of them you have pulled out of our annual vacation claiming you need rest, if not for the fact that the trend looks so exact I would have asked that you bear with me another year but to be honest yet again, I know this cycle and imma not gonna try to stop the wheel. I'd rather make myself happy by the fact that my prediction of the wheel comes through than have you here half hearted. Yes you say other guys throw
more of the money around but you knew me even before you became this important in my life. You know how much of investment i've been through and you see its all yielding well. You can agree well that with my present limited resources you are quite a priority; apart from 'paying the bills'. Its just that you have failed to see yourself as a part of me. I see you as an end and you see me as a means. Shaking my head now I know such is life. And need I remind you others did exactly the same. Some of them moved on and I even got better, to be honest many of them have not had it as good as when we were together, just a few of them have been able to quite justify their move on, i remember clearly te one that was home sick. I told myself then that my next love will be to a local but you still got me convinced. You are not homesick; its either you are sick or our relationship has a fever. Whitney houston will be proud of me here as i say i hope life treats u well and i hope you get all you've always wished for, but to be honest do i wish you trophies? Robin Van Persie when you move on honestly I would just feel good that i predicted right again.Believe it or not its just the tears of an emotional Arsenal fan.
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Why is RVP's imminent exit evoking reactions. Issokay!

This is another true life story and this person needs your help.
Note: all the names are not real.
I'm Amaka, I met my husband 8 years ago at age 22, he was 46yrs old then. Though he was married, his first wife left him in 2002 after 14yrs of marriage without any issue.I got married and packed into his duplex located at Ajah. After our marriage, I got pregnant and had twins (2boys).  My husband was very happy. 3 years later, I had another set of twin boys. He could not contain his excitement, he told me, "IFEYINWA TNK U FOR SHOWING D WORLD THAT I AM A MAN, I WIL LUV U TILL I DIE" and I replied, "I WIL LUV U TOO TIL DEATH DO US PART'He later opened a big supermarket for me at lekki. I was devoted and dedicated to my home, we were living in peace until 2 years ago when CHIOMA the first wife came back, i welcomed her and even asked my husband to forgive her. Within 6months our peaceful house turned to something else. CHIOMA's behaviour changed towards me, she started calling me a prostitute, husband snatcher and other unprintable names.That same month our husband FRANK became sick and his blood pressure became high. CHIOMA started making life unbearable for me, she insisted the house was FRANK and her. He told my husband to rent another house for us but he refused.In 2011, FRANK lost all he had cos his business partner ran away with all his money, I took over the expenses in the house, he was grateful and he told me, 'IFEYINWA DO U KNOW YOU ARE DIFFERENT FROM OTHER WOMEN, DESPITE MY FINANCIAL STATUS AND AGE GAP U STIL STOOD BY ME. I WILL ALWAYS LUV U" and I told him I would love him for better for worse.But Chioma wouldn't care. She was never happy with me and my children, she said the house was built when she was living with him then dat i should go with my bastard children. I am 30yrs now, she is 47 while Frank is 54yrs.I gave Frank N3million to start another business and told him of my plans to rent a house so peace would reign but he refused, he started crying like baby. The next day his BP raised to 320. Everything got so bad, Chioma would threaten to stab me at any slightest provocation. We do the same business but she's not happy about my progress cos I'm miles ahead of her. She has never for one day bought anything in the house, I've been footing the bills.I went to meet my Pastor and he advised me to quit the marriage because Frank belongs to Chioma.My Question is…What will happen to Frank, my 4boys and i? How will i break dis news to him? I love him so much but what about his condition? Chioma hates my children and I and he wants Frank to sell the duplex. Pls advise me, what is my fate? What do I do?
Hmmmmm! Over to you guyz!