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#BringBackOurGirls: Photos from Lagos protest

The #BringBackOurGirls Ikeja, Lagos protest for the release of the over 200 girls abducted by Islamic sect, Boko Haram, took place today, May 5, 2014. Spotted at the peaceful rally include Omoni Oboli, Betty Irabor Mo Abudu, Banky W, Tiwa Savage, Sasha and other concerned citizens of Nigeria.

Get Empowered for the fantastic future ahead! Register and attend the second edition of The Single Ladies' Conference (SLC)

After a successful maiden edition, which was held on the 29th of May, 2013, the organizers of The Single Ladies’ Conference; a summit for young women, between the ages of 18 – 35 are set for another powerful outing. This year’s event which will hold on Thursday, May 29, 2014 at the Anchor Events Centre, Lateef Jakande road, Agidingbi, Ikeja, Lagos is themed, ‘Greater Than’. Put together by Gem Publications ltd; publishers of Gem woman and Gem man magazines; the conference also seeks to expose the ills of several societal menaces such as rape, abuse, prostitution, etc., while proffering healing and counsel for victims. Highlights include: Powerful word ministrations, Counseling and emotional healing sessions, Sessions on marriage, career, relationships, ministry, and health, Uplifting worship sessions, amongst others.
Seasoned speakers for the 2014 event include Pastor Bola Olawale; Publisher/CEO, Gem woman/man magazines; Steve Harris, Nigeria’s leading Life Strategist, Motivational Speaker & Author and Rev. Mrs Funke Adetuberu is a dynamic, multifaceted woman of God and highly sought after conference speaker.
Here’s a statement from The SLC team, “We’ve all got questions! And sometimes, fear, worry, and anxiety about the past, present and future can be overwhelming… We wonder if we are good enough, strong enough, talented enough, or even beautiful enough… for the great life our heart desires. Don’t let fear or doubt hold you down! You are special, blessed and destined for greatness! Your life was created and pre-ordained by our God, who is GREATER THAN… everything and anything! He is the All-Powerful and He is interested in making your life a wonder!
Join us at The Single Ladies’ Conference 2014, as we answer vital questions, gain insights and get empowered for the fantastic future ahead of us, even as we are equipped to make the best use of the present. The Single Ladies’ Conference is established with the purpose of achieving the following aims:
(1)Engendering purposeful self-discovery for single ladies;
(2) Empowering spinsters to maximise their singleness;
(3) Equipping young women to fulfill purpose;
(4) Providing the needed enlightenment required for building strong homes.
Theme: GREATER THAN….
Date: Thursday May 29, 2014
Time: 10am
Venue: Anchor Events Centre, Lateef Jakande road, Agidingbi, Ikeja (Beside Union Bank)
Dress code: SLC Branded T-Shirt (available at selected outlets) and a pair of jeans or trousers.
Registration fee:  N2,500 (this covers the SLC Branded T-shirt)
 For more information contact: 08033021171, 08122189315, 07052788866, 08034083844, 07086561988.

CAF bans Gambia for two years from International Competitions

The Confederation of African Football, CAF after a thorough investigation has banned Gambia from all competitions (African’s Champions League and Confederation Cup competitions) for two years for fielding over-aged players.
Their five players paraded in the Liberia-Gambia qualifier were born in 1994 but the competition was only open to players born on 1 January 1995 or after.
The sanction was announced on Saturday, May 3, 2014. According to a statement by CAF, the decision to suspend the Gambia FA for two years from all CAF competitions is in line with ‘Article 37 Paragraph 1’ of the regulations of the African U-20 Championship, which states “for any deliberate intention to foul or cheat in any matter involving the falsification of documents, the defaulting association shall be suspended for two years from all CAF competitions”.

Second-hand husband: Tiwa Savage and hubby take a swipe at Etcetera

Nigerian singer, Etcetera’s article on female celebrities preferring second-hand husbands written in Punch newspaper two days ago has elicited reactions from newly-weds; Tiwa Savage and her husband/manager Tunji ‘Tee Billz’ Balogun. Incase you missed it, read it here Both of them took to their instagram accounts to lash out at the PUNCH columnist implying that he has no courage to mention their names or analyse their marriage.
TeeBillz, “I don’t owe You Shit so I won’t answer to your speculations ECETERA but I will plead to @lindaikeji @bellanaijaonline TMZ, Ladun To please Find Pictures of My First Marriage. Maybe ECETERA Can Help Locate It. #GetTheBallsToCallMyName.’
“You are not in a position to discuss how male artists are gigolos, most of them came after you and by His grace have achieved more.” Tiwa wrote

The President I Want | By: Chimamanda Adichie

In the wake of the abduction of over 200 Nigerian school girls by Boko Haram few weeks back, award-winning writer, Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie in an article titled, “The President I Want” has condemned the lackadaisical attitude of President Jonathan towards the rescue of the girls and security in general. Read below:
Some of my relatives lived for decades in the North, in Kano and Bornu. They spoke fluent Hausa. (One relative taught me, at the age of eight, to count in Hausa.) They made planned visits to Anambra only a few times a year, at Christmas and to attend weddings and funerals. But sometimes, in the wake of violence, they made unplanned visits. I remember the word ‘Maitatsine’ – to my young ears, it had a striking lyricism – and I remember the influx of relatives who had packed a few bags and fled the killings.
What struck me about those hasty returns to the East was that my relatives always went back to the North. Until two years ago when my uncle packed up his life of thirty years in Maiduguri and moved to Awka. He was not going back. This time, he felt, was different. My uncle’s return illustrates a feeling shared by many Nigerians about Boko Haram: a lack of hope, a lack of confidence in our leadership.We are experiencing what is, apart from the Biafran war, the most violent period in our nation’s existence. Like many Nigerians, I am distressed about the students murdered in their school, about the people whose bodies were spattered in Nyanya, about the girls abducted in Chibok. I am furious that politicians are politicizing what should be a collective Nigerian mourning, a shared Nigerian sadness. And I find our president’s actions and non-actions unbelievably surreal.
I do not want a president who, weeks after girls are abducted from a school and days after brave Nigerians have taken to the streets to protest the abductions, merely announces a fact-finding committee to find the girls. I want President Jonathan to be consumed, utterly consumed, by the state of insecurity in Nigeria. I want him to make security a priority, and make it seem like a priority. I want a president consumed by the urgency of now, who rejects the false idea of keeping up appearances while the country is mired in terror and uncertainty. I want President Jonathan to know – and let Nigerians know that he knows – that we are not made safer by soldiers checking the boots of cars, that to shut down Abuja in order to hold a World Economic Forum is proof of just how deeply insecure the country is. We have a big problem, and I want the president to act as if we do.
I want the president to slice through the muddle of bureaucracy, the morass of ‘how things are done,’ because Boko Haram is unusual and the response to it cannot be business as usual. I want President Jonathan to communicate with the Nigerian people, to realize that leadership has a strong psychological component: in the face of silence or incoherence, people lose faith. I want him to humanize the lost and the missing, to insist that their individual stories be told, to show that every Nigerian life is precious in the eyes of the Nigerian state. I want the president to seek new ideas, to act, make decisions, publish the security budget spending, offer incentives, sack people. I want the president to be angrily heartbroken about the murder of so many, to lie sleepless in bed thinking of yet what else can be done, to support and equip the armed forces and the police, but also to insist on humaneness in the midst of terror.
I want the president to be equally enraged by soldiers who commit murder, by policemen who beat bomb survivors and mourners. I want the president to stop issuing limp, belated announcements through public officials, to insist on a televised apology from whoever is responsible for lying to Nigerians about the girls having been rescued. I want President Jonathan to ignore his opponents, to remember that it is the nature of politics, to refuse to respond with defensiveness or guardedness, and to remember that Nigerians are understandably cynical about their government. I want President Jonathan to seek glory and a place in history, instead of longevity in office. I want him to put aside the forthcoming 2015 elections, and focus today on being the kind of leader Nigeria has never had.
I do not care where the president of Nigeria comes from. Even those Nigerians who focus on ‘where the president is from’ will be won over if they are confronted with good leadership that makes all Nigerians feel included. I have always wanted, as my president, a man or a woman who is intelligent and honest and bold, who is surrounded by truth-telling, competent advisers, whose policies are people-centered, and who wants to lead, who wants to be president, but does not need to – or have to- be president at all costs.
President Jonathan may not fit that bill, but he can approximate it: by being the leader Nigerians desperately need now.

Thanks for jumping for every goal! Jose Mourinho writes son.

Look who’s writing an emotional letter-to his fans, a fan, his son- Jose Mourinho! I hope we’ll get to see more of this side often. I got this picture from Twitter and I hope it’s really true. Well, the letter isn’t directed to his son alone, but to all the Blue family i.e all Chelsea fans.

Didier Drogba could return to Chelsea as a player-coach

I got this from only one football source; metro.co.uk. But if this is really true, Didier Drogba’s return to Stamford Bridge would be one of the best things that has ever happened to Chelsea fans. The reason isn’t far-fetched. He’s revered in Chelsea till date.
According to Metro Sports, Drogba, whose contract in his current club, Galatasaray expires in June 2014 could return to his former club, Chelsea FC as a player-coach. Jose Mourinho is reportedly ready to offer the Ivorian a one year playing contract as a player and three-year coaching deal.

Female Celebrities Prefer Second-Hand Husbands | By: Etcetera

Some days ago I was at a friend’s place and was asked by his sisters if I was travelling abroad for the wedding of a colleague that is still being talked about on blogs and on all social networking sites in nigeria and I said no I wasn’t. But what struck me as odd was when one of them asked me “is she getting married to a BRAND NEW husband or a 2ND HAND husband”?
I stared at her in shock and confusion because up until that moment, I had never heard of a phrase as “brand new or 2nd hand husband. It became a heated debate amongst people in the house that day. ‘WOW’, I never thought a phrase like 2nd hand can be attributed to a human being. I know it is only applicable to objects. At first i was angry. How could they have said such.
But as crazy and odd as it may have sounded, they drew my attention to their observations that it is a trend currently popular amongst female celebrities in Nigeria. The guys in the house even tweaked it into a joke. Adding that it is a normal thing in Nigeria that when you can’t afford a brand new car you go for a 2nd hand one. I couldn’t help but laugh at that one. But on my way home, I thought about it for a minute and asked myself if truly a 2nd hand or brand new theory can be a determinant in finding a husband? It got me staring at every car passing by, trying to understand the rationale behind the argument of a 2nd hand husband and a brand new one. How do you determine if a husband is a 2nd hand? I asked myself. I was later told that a man becomes a 2nd hand if he was previously married or is still married to another woman before taking a new wife.
And that a 2nd hand husband just like a 2nd hand car comes in two types. Nigerian used and Tokunbo. Meaning the husband who was previously married and living here in Nigeria is the “Nigerian used”, while the one shipped in from abroad is the Tokunbo version. Shocking isn’t it? Ok, let us analyse this for a minute. It is a known fact that in Nigeria, when you want to buy a 2nd hand car you are strongly advised to take a mechanic with you. So can you also do the same with a 2nd hand husband? Should it also be recommended that when going for a 2nd hand husband you should make sure to take a medical doctor to administer all the necessary check ups to be sure you are not getting damaged goods?
 
Because in the true sense of it, a 2nd hand is a 2nd hand whether car or husband. And If the carburetor of a 2nd hand car can easily pack up on 3rd mainland bridge, it means a 2nd hand husband can also pack up on the way to the altar. As these thoughts were spinning in my head, I began asking myself the same questions they asked me. Why do Nigerian female celebrities prefer 2nd hand husbands? Or Why would anyone prefer a 2nd hand husband? But come to think of it, Is it that our female celebrities can no longer afford the luxury of waiting for the brand new ones to come along?
Or have the brand new ones refused to be fooled by the razzmatazz or flashy make ups, thick foundations, artificial nails, Brazilian hair and Peruvian eye lashes? Can it be attributed to a thing of choice? They said a 2nd hand husband is often an Alhaji or an Otunba with pot belly and deep pocket. Is it because of the  money or societal status of the men? As long as he is fully loaded she really does not care. Some went further to say that a 2nd hand husband is already tested and trusted with a confirmed rate of performance and durability?
 
So figure a female celebrity asking her colleague, “What is the mileage of your 2nd hand husband? And she replies “Ahhh I nor know say hin former wives don finish am oo.. Na shaft I marry ooo, My sista nor be small thing ooo, even my doctor sef say him liver go soon park up. And na for hospital I dey sleep for the past 3 weeks. Just like 2nd hand car owner dey sleep for mechanic workshop everyday.
As my Curiosity got the better of me, I asked them for names of female celebrities with 2nd hand husbands. I was shocked beyond recognition that the list they gave me was as long as the distance from mile 2 to Badagry. According to the list, almost all married female celebrities in Nigeria has a 2nd hand husband and even some of the female celebrities themselves are 2nd hand. And some of the male celebrities also have 2nd hand wives or they themselves are 2nd hand. Well, if you don’t believe me, make a list of your own and be amazed as I am right now. My conclusion is that the issue of 2nd hand husband is not peculiar to entertainers. It is a general societal disease and it is as a result of too many failed marriages we have in the society at large. While nobody should be blamed for falling in love or getting married to whoever he or she chooses, it is also important that we position our lives to inspire the children and future entertainers who see us as role models in the society.
 
You may argue that it is not the society’s business what you do with your affairs. Which is very true but also remember that being a celebrity makes your life a public affair. So go ahead girls, take home the 2nd hand husbands, it is your choice and it does not matter even if he looks like an “accidented” car with scary mileage. If you love him that much and he has some money to spend, you can take him to the highly skilled American body mechanic called Dr. 90210 to panel-beat and mask all his dents. And if you are fortunate to find one whose mileage is manageable, you can take him to Ladipo market, buy the missing body parts and get a local panel-beater to fix him. And if you are a handy-woman, You can even do the servicing yourself by getting a complete first aid kit with bandages, Ampiclox and mentholatum and massage his joints every night before sleeping.
 
 
 
 
 
 
Culled from Punch Newspapers
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