Actress, Henrietta Kosoko survives car crash
It's another boy for Shakira and Gerard Pique
Columbian singer, Shakira and her footballer heartthrob,Gerard Pique have welcomed baby their second child; a baby boy. The couple’s first child, Milan is 2 years old.
The bundle of joy which arrived lastnight
at about 11pm at the same clinic, Quiron Teknon Hospital in Barcelona, where she gave birth to Milan has been reportedly named Sacha.
Congrats to the couple!
How To Introduce Yourself At A Social, Business or Networking Event | By: Helen Ozor
Knowing how to introduce yourself to others and engage in conversation is a vital part of business, social, and networking etiquette. Using a process and employing a strategy will help reduce anxiety and increase your
confidence. I hope this few tips below would help..
First, it is advisable you try to arrive to the event early. It’s not so daunting to walk into a room and approach people and introduce yourself if the room is not so crowded. If you arrive midway through an event, it’s more intimidating to approach people because it often appears everyone is already conversing in small groups.
Next, after entering the room, step to the right of the doorway and pause. Briefly scan the room for anyone you specifically want to meet, such as new. clients or key people. You may also consider introducing yourself to a “Lone Ranger,” someone standing alone who may not know anyone and is too shy to reach out. A “Lone Ranger” is usually delighted when someone approaches to talk and will most often respond positively to your confidence.
Next, is the “approach.” Try to make eye contact with the Lone Ranger or key person, etc. Smile, approach the person, extend your hand, and say your first and last name and company name. For example, greet the individual by saying, “Hello—I’m (first and last name) from (company name). Do you mind if I join you?” The new person will then extend his/her hand and introduce himself/herself to you.
Often the key individual you want to meet may already be in a conversation group. But, the approach is similar. First, make eye contact, smile, approach the person, extend your hand and introduce yourself. If you’ve met previously, trigger the other person’s memory by mentioning the event conference, etc. where you first met. If appropriate, compliment the individual on their speech, award, accomplishment, etc.
It’s also impressive if you can introduce yourself to others you don’t know and engage in conversation. I realize that trying to integrate yourself into an ongoing conversation takes many people out of their comfort zone. But, every time you do, it will get easier, you’ll gain confidence, and it will reflect on you in a positive way.
Look for a group of only two to three people. It’s easier to approach a smaller group than a larger group.
Next, you’ll use the same professional manner to approach the group as you did to introduce yourself to the Lone Ranger or key individual.
Try to make eye contact, smile, approach the group, extend your hand to the person with whom you made eye contact, and introduce yourself. The others should introduce themselves to you. As the newcomer, it’s polite to shake hands with everyone in the group. It’s rude to shake only with the first person and just say ‘hi’ to the others.
Those already in the conversation group should make you feel welcome by mentioning what they were talking about or by asking about you. Never underestimate the power of introducing yourself to others. It sends a powerful message of confidence and professionalism. And, you never know…these new acquaintances could be mutually beneficial down the road.
Note: It is important you have a polished 30-second elevator speech ready!
Helen Ozor is an events blogger. She blogs at www.helenozor.com
Don Jazzy always changes the station whenever he hears me on radio- D'banj | Watch the rest of The Truth.
If you missed the Part 1 of D’banj’s video interview with Olisa Adibua on “THE TRUTH With Olisa”- Olisa.Tv you’ve missed a lot. Well, you can still watch it.
Olisa.TV brings you the remaining (Part 2) of the interview – which is even much more sensational and revealing than the Part 1! A small sample of the many topics covered:
-D’Banj said that that Don Jazzy told him that whenever he hears his voice
on the radio he always changes the station
-He talks about what he is planning for this year to celebrate his 10 years
in the business
-He discussed his public support of President Goodluck Jonathan and the
controversies about it including whether he was paid
– The conversation between D’Banj and Olisa became very heated when Olisa
started questioning D’Banj on the success of his music since Oliver Twist
-It seemed that a ‘raw nerve’ had been touched, and D’Banj threatened to
walk out of the interview!
– These and many other questions including:- allegations of court cases and
debts, his relationship with Kanye West, Genevieve Nnaji, the possible
reunion with Don Jazzy, and various other topics were covered. The video is
a must-see!
VIDEO LINK: http://www.olisa.tv
Event: Banke Meshida-Lawal, Mai Atafo, Funke Bucknor-Obruthe, Kelechi Amadi-Obi others for The Wedding Industry Conference & Exhibition (TWICE)
Opinion: What Manner Of Change Is APC Chanting? | By: Shaka Momodu
As I sit down to write this piece, I cannot but be amused by the change chorus around me. Even though I sense some genuine desire to have things go in a different direction, I get this sneaky feeling that a vast majority of Nigerians are being duped by some smart and clever businessmen masquerading as progressive democrats and agents of change.
They sensed resentment and keyed in with the change slogan which seems to have caught on like a wildfire in the harmattan. But when you ask those clamouring for change; change to what? They just stare blankly at you unsure of how to answer. And when the answer eventually comes, it’s a disappointment, “we just want change.” That is the first inkling you get that some of our choristers of change hardly understand the issues at stake.
Now, are these promoters of change really agents of change? Are they really the democrats they profess to be? The evidence around me suggests otherwise. I think they are part of the problems Nigerians need change from. The values and virtues of democracy which they profess and claim allegiance are observed more in breach by these people who claim to be the long awaited messiahs destined to liberate our countrymen from the bondage of corrupt managers of public wealth.
They remind us every day of the rot in the system – corruption at the centre, growing unemployment, insecurity in the land, irregular power supply etc. Of course, these are facts that cannot be disputed. But what they fail to tell us is that they have been part and parcel of the rot and share in the responsibility and blame for the situation in the country today. They fail to remind us that they are among the greatest beneficiaries of the weak institutions that have made the country a wobbling giant. They fail to tell Nigerians that they have become richer and more prosperous on account of their holding public offices in this democracy. They want change not to serve the people but to serve their own interests and those of their cronies.
They just want more money to increase their vast wealth to further their private benefits at the expense of public good. But they have found a strap line that resonates well with the people to anchor their quest for power, but no one is guiltier of practices detrimental to public good than these so-called agents of change. Their daily conduct is a mockery of their progressive hymn; the solemnity of their pledges to liberate the people is hollow, impiety and deceptive.
Now, let’s take a look for a moment at the promoters of change. Former Lagos State Governor Bola Tinubu at the Redemption Rally organised by the then Action Congress of Nigeria (ACN) in Akure to mobilise support for the party’s candidate, Rotimi Akeredolu, in the last Ondo governorship election openly boasted how he funded Olusegun Mimiko’s election with millions of pounds. He said: “Mimiko claimed that I did not spend money when he had problems with his mandate; this is not true. It is a lie. He came to me and begged for support, rolling on the ground.
“He collected money from me. I spent millions of pounds sterling but he betrayed me. It was Yemi Osinbajo who travelled to Israel and other countries to arrange the experts that helped him prosecute the case. Mimiko has called me a godfather, yes, I am a positive godfather and even, godfatherism is biblical and that is why Christians refer to God as their Father. I play godfatherism in the South-west for the good of our people. My godfatherism is for progress and mentoring. I have brought development to Oyo, Osun, Ekiti, Lagos, Edo and Ogun States and the people are better for it.”
Now, were the millions of pounds sterling earnings from entrepreneurship or money made from holding public office? We hear of his vast wealth spanning real estate, media, construction, hospitality etc. It is this same man that former President Olusegun Obasanjo, the “Navigator” of APC, referred to in his book, My Watch, as “having the worst case of corruption”. Till this moment, there has been no reaction from Tinubu.
Recall how he railroaded his wife into the Senate to replace a man who was far more experienced in legislative activities. Today, his wife merely sits in the Senate warming the seat, hardly making any meaningful contribution on the floor of debate. Lest we forget, his sister-in-law was also planted in the Lagos State House of Assembly. His son-in-law is also in the House of Representatives. This is the height of nepotism.
But nothing underscores Tinubu’s pretentious claim to the principles of democracy than his arbitrary appointment of his daughter, Sade, as the Iyaloja of Market Women and Traders in Lagos following the demise of his mother, Alhaja Abibat Mogaji, who held the position. A true and progressive democrat would have thrown the position open to elective contest.
But that was not to be as he simply pronounced his 40-year-old daughter at the time, who is not even a trader, the President General of Market Women and Traders in Lagos, practically decreeing it a hereditary position. There is a saying that, “you can’t like the fruits of a tree and hate the tree.” A true democrat must not only preach it but practice it in all its manifestations.
Imagine if it was President Goodluck Jonathan that appointed his daughter as President of Market Women and Traders, all hell would have broken loose in the country. APC and those fraudulent human rights activists would have been shouting to high heavens in condemnation; lawyers – hundreds of SANs would have been jostling to represent the traders in court free of charge to challenge the imposition.
But Tinubu did it against all known sense of decency and not a whimper from these hypocritical sets of people who by their own choosing lay claim to being the custodians of public good. From the pro-democracy activists to the constitutional lawyers who see two similar impunities with double vision and twin morality to the godfather goaded to continue to dupe the conscience of the people, there is no difference between their sins.
Governor Babatunde Fashola is on a swing after being initially at odds with his godfather’s preference to succeed him. He seems to have accepted the reality of his own near-zero political value and has embraced the man he initially kicked against. He fought his godfather through proxies, culminating in an open contest where he was roundly beaten. The old fox taught his godson a very bitter lesson on how not to challenge a benefactor. When the primaries were held, the distance between the godfather’s preference and godson’s were miles apart.
How can one explain that after eight years in office and with well over N4 trillion in revenue expended, pipe borne water is still a scarce resource in Lagos? An estimated 90 per cent of Lagosians have no access to this vital necessity of life. Nearly every household today self-provides this essential resource by sinking a borehole. Recall here that the situation wasn’t this bad before Fashola’s rise to power. Even if the situation was bad, the governor’s record on this score is a miserable failure.
Under Fashola, instead of more people having access to pipe borne water, what we are seeing is a rapid decline of access to this necessity of life. Many public schools have no roofs, toilets, tables, and chairs as students sit on worn-out tyres to take lectures in classrooms that have neither windows nor doors. This is the state of some public schools especially the primary schools in Fashola’s Lagos.
The state of most roads in the state is nothing to write home about. Just visit a place like Ikorodu or Iyani Ipaja and you will understand what I mean. The health sector has deteriorated to the level of “mere consulting clinics,” i.e. if you see a doctor to consult. If you think I am lying, visit any of the public health facilities in Lagos and tell me if any, I repeat if any, befits our so-called “centre of excellence”.
I am also curious to know the policies Fashola initiated to help the unable become able and as such help lift more people out of the poverty index. Affordable housing is still a pipe dream in this mega-city state. What has he done to ease the challenges faced by the people in this regard? This is the man now at the forefront of change campaign. The man who could not change the dilapidated infrastructure in public schools, health sector or provide pipe borne water for Lagosians after nearly eight years in office as governor is the one telling Nigerians that help is coming from Buhari.
Former Governor Lateef Jakande’s temporary school structures litter the state, almost 32 years after he left office. Lagosians should ask him, if he truly shares in their pains and identifies with their problems as he claims to be, then why are his children not attending public schools or using public health facilities like ordinary people?
Perhaps, more than anything else, Fashola’s hypocrisy played out last week, finally revealing the internal contradictions in their message of change.
When I read the statement made by the governor urging Lagosians not to vote for an old man, Jimi Agbaje (57), I chuckled, unsure of what he meant. Hear him: “You know what you have to do, open your eyes clearly. When I took this job, I was 44, I was counting the white hair on my head. Today, at 52, I am counting the black hair on my head. Akinwunmi Ambode is younger than me; you need youthfulness to do this job. That man (referring to Jimi Agbaje) is already 60; he cannot cope with this job. If you call him at night he may not take your call.”
The same Fashola, who feels Agbaje whom he claims, is 60 but whose actual age is said to be 57 is too old to govern Lagos, has been campaigning vigorously for Muhammadu Buhari (72) to be elected to govern Nigeria.
Now hear him defend his position on Buhari: “Some people are challenging me that if I say Agbaje is too old to govern Lagos, what about Buhari who is older? My response is this: We all agree that we have problem of insecurity in the country. Between Jonathan and Buhari who is the most experienced to tackle security issue? We all know Buhari is an experienced security expert. Then on corruption issue, who is the most credible among them? It is only Buhari. He has ruled Nigeria before and headed several positions without record of corruption and mismanagement.”
Did he really mean what he said about age? If he did then something is wrong somewhere. In one breadth, he approbates in another he reprobates. If a 57 or 60-year-old is too old to govern Lagos, which is less complex and a microcosm of Nigeria, why should it be okay for a 72-year-old man to be the president of Nigeria with all its multiplicity of problems? Will Buhari, who is steep in medieval times, pick Fashola’s call at night? Does Buhari have the vigour, stamina and mental alertness to govern a modern country with all its ethno-religious complexities and developmental challenges? The hypocrisy of these people surprises me to no end.
After nearly eight years in office, Governor Aliyu Magatakada Wamakko’s Sokoto State is still on the list of the 10 poorest states in Nigeria. This is according to the recent Oxford Poverty and Human Development Initiative (OPHI) 2014 report which revealed Nigeria’s poorest states. A man who failed to change the fortunes of Sokoto people for the better is on the bandwagon of APC’s change. His state is listed number four on the poverty index.
Look at Governor Rotimi Amaechi’s behaviour in Rivers State. What is ennobling about it that one can sincerely recommend as model to the youths to emulate? A progressive democrat who is so intolerant of opposition that he won’t even allow the use of the state’s stadium for a campaign rally a few days after he used the same facility to flag off his party’s campaign. Is this the change they talk about?
The truth is that Nigerians are not included within the pale of their glorious progressive dividends. Their posturing matched against the reality of their stewardship only reveals the immeasurable distance between them and the people whose interests they claim to be fighting for. They have amassed a rich inheritance for their own children, while condemning our children to hewers of wood and drawers of water.
This is a generation of self-seekers whose motivation is primitive wealth accumulation. They must be challenged, interrogated and held to account for their public conduct lest the people are misled again by their new clamour disingenuously disguised as “change.”
According to Theodore Roosevelt, “The foundation-stone of national life is, and ever must be, the high individual character of the average citizen.” This is specially so for leaders and custodians of public trust. But what we have seen here is a succession of bad leaders who have profited from the misery of the people. And there you have it.
Spanish club names stadium gate after late Nigerian goalkeeper
Spanish football club, Rayo Vallecano has named one of its stadium gates after late Nigerian goal keeper, Wilfred Agbonavbare. Willie The Cat as fondly called who passed on on tuesday at age 48 after a long time battle with cancer played over a hundred games for Rayo Vallecano between 1990 and 1996.
Spanish newspaper, AS reports that the club’s board of directors held a meeting on Wednesday and decided to appreciate the Edo-born skipper’s dedication to the club by naming the Gate 1 of the Vallecas Stadium “Gate Wilfred Agbonavbare”.
The ex Nigeria international was buried next to his wife in Spain. The occasion was attended by his children, Wilson and Wintia, Rayo Vallecano President, Raul Martin Presa and other dignitaries.
APC has more thinking people than the PDP – Iyabo Obasanjo writes
Reactions have continue to trail erstwhile Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN) Governor, Charles Soludo’s article published few days back.
Iyabo Obasanjo, former senator and daughter of ex Nigerian president, Olusegun Obasanjo has deemed the article as the best she has read recently on the real situation politically and economically in Nigeria.
Below is her writeup on Vanguard newspaper. Titled: Soludo, Fayemi and Fani-Kayode: My takeaway:
1. Professor Soludo’s article on the elections in Nigeria is the best writing I have read recently on the real situation politically and economically in Nigeria. The well-articulated response from Dr. Fayemi compared to the abuse infused response from Femi Fani-Kayode on the PDP side is a great example of the contrast of the status-quo compared to the alternative.
2. Whatever the case and I don’t expect miracles from APC but right now they have more thinking people than the PDP. As a Yoruba person, Dr. Fayemi’s response is how we expect our educated elite to take up issues and not the mad ranting’s of Fani-Kayode.
3. I agree with most of his premise but I do not think they (APC) can take up a massive public works program in a period of “famine” i.e. low oil prices.
4. During the great depression when Roosevelt used public works to help provide jobs, it was the stock market that failed i.e. Government revenue was affected from tax income but income from exportation which was then mainly agricultural goods was not affected.
5. The government could use money from its coffers to create jobs and provide skills and training, which people could then use in the private sector.
6. The best part of Dr. Fayemi’s response is that it is not elite focused. Nigerian governance as I saw it was not a democracy but an elitocracy. Govt of the elite by the elite for the elite and even if you grew up in near death poverty once you left those circumstances you forgot where you came from and concentrated on your immediate family and matters affecting the wellbeing of the elite.
7. Changing this perspective to make the elite understand that their wellbeing was in fact dependent on the wellbeing of the masses will be APC’s challenge.
8. They are sourcing from the same pool of elite talent that every Nigerian government has to source from and it is this pool that essentially has to be different or we will find ourselves again at precipice as usual.
Skintimidation; a Nollywood phenomenon | By: Daniel Boyle
It is no longer news that our celebrities are going white! And that’s because you have to be “camera friendly” says the producer. A friend of mine says “you have to be seen by the producer from 200km away”
If you have been a fervent follower of Nollywood, you would notice this gradual change as the actresses you used to refer to as “dark skinned” are now called “caramel abi chocolate”
I won’t call names oh, but you should decode this fast; one of them used to be a model, she’s in her forties now and was sometime married to a white man. She’s been a brand ambassador to a big telecoms company as well as our favourite seasoning powder.
The second one is the ultimate diva who is known to be box office material, compare these two movies and contrast the skin tone “ijele” and “ije”
The third one is our darling sweet heart, short and full of life (with a white husband) who is known now to be producing her own movies…
These three were originally known as “dark skinned” but today? The lord has been gracious to them that their blessing came with a new skin.
Even the music industry isn’t any duller as our boys are making us proud skin-wise, with our Naija lil wayne denying that he isn’t bleaching, well he isn’t! Lol he is toning (that’s the way its been put out mildly).
Another brother, whose career is not so blooming even after much “toning” is another case study, his name is coined from a continent and an asian country….. You can also add the short calabar dude who rose to fame with his partner from a beer company’s competition.
It is called “Skintimidation”, where your skin tone gets you the job! Or the signing. Though I remain indifferent over celebrities wanting to even out their skin (to show their arrival)
It’s just that they need not say a word about it…don’t go to social media to deny it!
That’s how that ghollywood actress who says she has the “best legs in the game” caused much buzz after she threw a campaign of denial.
Ehen, speaking of Ghollywood….they too are catching up as their actresses are shining bright like diamonds too…need I mention the one with fine face, good hips and knock knees? Or the one who is fat this year and slim the other year….y’all know her na? Her name is similar to popular Chinese actor “chan”
And I can’t even end this gist without mentioning our papa in the yoruba and english movie industry, he is always taking up the “big man” role and like I said, despite the burnt face, his colour landed him a role in the very popular soap, Tinsel. (Runs off)
#justforlaughs