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Stella Damasus shares 20 tips for dealing with internet trolls

Taunted by internet trolls? Shut them down with Stella Damasus’ methods. The stunning actress who is no stranger to cyberbullies shared tips on how to deal with trolls on social media on her blog. Check Them Out!
1. Acknowledge the fact that haters thrive on Hate. It is a negative attribute/trait which kills internally and fast.
2. If you claim to be a positive person, don’t waste your time dwelling on the negative.
3. You need to understand the fact that these people are HURTING within themselves. They need to escape from that hurt or take it out on someone.
4. Don’t let them drag you into their HATE HOLE. If you hate them back then you have become exactly like them. Your loss.
5. You cannot control what people do or say, but you can control how you react to it.
6. INTERNET TROLLING is a very addictive habit. Instead of making them important, see them as addicts who desperately need rehabilitation. Addiction is a silent killer.
7. Don’t waste your time getting angry at people who don’t even know you. It is not logical to allow strangers feed off your anger. They are not worth your emotions.
8. Most times, people who make the loudest noise need attention. They can never be relevant without it. Don’t be the one to make them popular by responding.
9. Get used to the fact that FREE social media has given even the most ignorant and jobless person a platform to speak his ignorance and lash out.
10. Rage is such a powerful life consuming emotion. It takes a lot of pain and anger to spit out VENOM, especially on people they don’t know. Your HATERS feel that they are hurting you when they say ugly things to you but they don’t realize how deep their pain has eaten into them. Pray for them because they are in pain and their hearts are deeply troubled. Remember that they may not realize this until it’s too late.
11. Your HATERS are mostly people who follow you and monitor all you do, so they can have opportunities to attack you. Guess what? You are more important to them than they are to you. You are being followed, but they are the ones doing the following. Who should have the upper hand?
12. The more they talk, the more you should RISE. Their negative comments should become your driving force to succeed and do more. The more you rise the more difficult it becomes for them to keep up. If they STOP harassing you, the RAGE MIGHT destroy them so they need you to SURVIVE.
13. Nothing can change their minds about you regardless of the amount of work you do to try and impress them. Focus on more important things, not how to change their mind. They don’t know you so what do they want to hate? They think they hate you because of their PAIN but their thoughts often lead them to more pain and destruction. Do you really want to get involved in all of that?
14. If they had more important things to do, they will not have the time to look for you, follow you, read your posts or look at your pictures, watch your videos then plan and construct their HATE comments. Trust me, this takes a lot of time and energy. If YOU had more important things to do, you will not have the time to look for the haters and you certainly will not have time to respond to all of them. Make them feel like you don’t even know they exist, neither do you see or acknowledge their comments. After a while, they get tired of trying to get at you.
15. If you were not relevant or making an impact, you will not have HATERS. What do you really want? Be less than average and not have any haters or be very successful, important and attract HATERS.
16. Your HATERS want what you have, they want the life that you have but can’t have it. Their reaction to this realization is to HATE YOU. By letting their comments torment you, it means you are accepting the fact that their unimportant life is your fault.
17. It is better to be talked about than to be the one who does the talking.
18. People hate what they don’t understand. When they can’t decipher the reason behind your success or happiness they will HATE YOU. Be happy that you have something they want. Always remember to thank God because it’s not the other way round.
19. Try not to respond to comments when you’re angry. Whatever you say at that point will be out of anger and this will make you seem worse than the HATER. They always try to provoke you to respond so that you condescend to their level. Resist the temptation to fire back at them with your own words.
20. Whatever you feed more will grow more. Don’t feed the haters by paying attention to them. Let them starve because you will not feed them with your time and attention. Guess what happens to a starved troll… When you get uncomfortable, simply DELETE COMMENT, BLOCK THE USER OR REPORT THE ACCOUNT.

Kelechi Iheanacho named deadliest player in Premier League

There is no doubt Manchester City sensation, Kelechi Iheanacho has been nothing short of spectacular this season. The CAF most promising talent of the year 2013 has been named the deadliest striker in the Premier League. 

The 19 year-old whose minutes per goal ratio this season is 99.8 scored 8 goals for his club and 14 across all competitions in the 2015/2016 campaign.  The Super Eagles forward beat teammate Sergio Aguero and Leicester City’s Jamie Vardy to the crown. 

Brazil's Kaka is the highest paid footballer in MLS.

Former Real Madrid player, Kaka has emerged the highest paid footballer in Major League Soccer.  The Brazilian leapfrogged Italian Sebastian Giovinco to top the league’s charts. Other prominent names featured in the list which was released by the MLS Players Union include Gerrard, Lampard, Pirlo, Drogba, Higuain to mention a few.

Top 10 Highest Paid MLS Stars:
1. Kaka (Orlando) – $7.17M
2. Giovinco (Toronto) $7.12M
3. Bradley (Toronto) $6.5M
4. Gerrard (LA) $6.13M
5. Lampard (NYCFC) $6M
6. Pirlo (NYCFC) $5.92M
7. Villa (NYCFC) $5.61M
8. Altidore (Toronto) $4.81M
9. Dempsey (Seattle) $4.61M
10. Dos Santos (LA) $4.25M

Koke, Zidane named La Liga player and coach of the month of April


Atletico Madrid’s Koke and Real Madrid manager, Zinedine Zidane have been named La Liga player and coach for the month of April. The Spanish footballer won the prize for netting two goals and giving four assists after his side recorded 6 wins in 6 games.  

The ex French international on the other hand  picked the trophy after 6 wins in 6 games including last el clásico.

Marriage not on Phyno's mind

https://loladeville.com.ng/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/Phyno-1.pngWave-making rapper, Azubuike Chibuzor, fondly called Phyno says he’s completely focused on his career and not thinking about settling down. The ‘Connect’ singer says he is on the same page with colleague, Flavour who opined weeks ago that most celebrities’ careers nosedive after marriage.

I think Flavour is right about entertainers and
marriage. Right to some extent and wrong to some extent. Depends on your wife.
If your wife is jealous, she may not be able to handle it. For me, talking
about marriage, when it happens it happens. I’m old enough to marry. But I’m
married to music right now.”
He said

Petitions to strip Real Madrid of their first 5 CL titles garners 50,000 signatures

 
Online petitions demanding that Real Madrid’s first five European titles be revoked has garnered a total of 50,000 signatures on change.org. The petition which kicked off few days back by a certain Justicia Deportiva – (Sporting Justice) reads thus.
 
“We wish to request, in the name of the values represented by the sport
and by democracy, that Real Madrid’s 5 ‘European Cups’ won between
1955-56 and 1959-60, be immediately revoked in recognition
of the fact that those trophies in no way correspond to the competition recognized today as the UEFA Champions League”.
So what they are saying in essence is that every time a format is changed the title holder should
be stripped off their title?  Very funny!

Enyeama, Emenike to feature in Yobo Testimonial match


Ex Super Eagles players, Vincent Enyeama and Emmanuel Emenike will honour their countryman, Joseph Yobo by playing in the forthcoming testimonial match. The duo who hung their boots last year confirmed their participation in the game which is scheduled to hold on May 27 at the Adokiye Amiesimaka Stadium in Port Harcourt. The event coordinator told PUNCH about the development.

“We have a confirmation to that effect and there are many other goodies
lined up for fans because Yobo is so passionate about this project. “Emmanuel is coming. He spoke with me personally and I am so elated with the love shown by my colleagues.”
He said.

Job Vacancy – Farm Manager

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An agricultural company is looking for a highly experienced and competent individual to fill the role of a Farm Manager.
 
Location: Oyo State
Requirements:
A degree in related discipline
Between 7-12 year experience
Excellent communication, honest, excellent business and interpersonal skills, self-motivated and
result-driven
 
Duties:
Make sound business decisions
Setting budget and production targets
Ensure that the farm is profitable and meets projected financial targets
Organize the maintenance/repair of farm property, equipment and machinery
Plan strategies for maximum yield
Handle paperwork and keeping administrative records
Recruiting, train/instruct and supervise farm workers
Advertise and market farm products
 
Interested candidates should forward their application with resume to [email protected]
Deadline for application June 30, 2016

Nigerian Gospel singer, Frank Edwards teams up with Don Moen for 'Grace'

 
The first of its kind!
Nigerian gospel singer, Frank Edwards is teaming up with renowned singer and music Evangelist, Don Moen for a song titled Grace. Frank narrated how their paths crossed.
 
’10 years ago, I was Hawking on the streets of Enugu for my mother. We
were so poor that we could hardly afford to eat, But my mother always
took me to church. She always told me to
serve GOD, and that is how I lived my life. 

Even wen it was difficult
to eat, I have always lived a life of worship. Today, God has taken my
music all over d world, it’s a beautiful thing to see white people
singing my songs, Igbo songs that they don’t know the meaning. Some time
ago, we were concluding a program and I was looking for a camera to
take a pic with Don Moen. 

Wen eventually I got someone to take d pic, as
I posed with Don, he looked at me and said, ” Frank Edwards, it is u!, I
need to take dis pic with u”. And he took his phone and showed me, ”
see, I have all your songs on my phone” then he said ” Frank, I saw
online that you have a studio in your home. I would like us to do a
collaboration together. I’m gonna come to your house for d first
recording and you will come over to mine in U.S for the finishing”. 

Me,
the same street boy from Enugu, doing a collaboration with Don Moen?..
Only GOD could have made it happen!! Live for GOD!! Praise him and thank
him even when things are not as you would have loved them to be! Live a
life of worship!!'”. And this my brethen is dat Album… ‪#‎itpaystoserveGod‬#

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